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Shaoxing, Shapeshifter – December 2, 2009

December 7, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Wendy, helpful assistant at Babe School, said “Will you ask for leave for me?” when she offered to go with me to long-awaited Shaoqing, her alma mater city. Bosses told me they “had something else for her, but Nancy could go to interpret.”

I offered Nancy a free three-day vacation. “I wasn’t consulted. I have never been to Shaoqing. I have something else to do!” I quickly told bosses I would go alone. Lisa, a new American teacher “watching me teach” (her words) “for Mama to train” (Zoe’s words), decided on departure morning that she would go too.

Wendy’s college friend, Lena, met us after a three-hour bus ride. We boarded a clearly-marked SHAOXING BUS, and I ended choosing among the spellings in guide books and among Chinese folks and discarded “Xiaoqing/Shaozing/Xiaoxing.” 

The lady had a spelling for her name. I’d read that name meant “a female cartoon character” and “to inherit what ancestors have created to develop something new.” The edge of town showed murky green waterways graced by arched bridges between intervals of cranes and building debris. From Yuezhou, its name 2500 years ago, when it was the capital of the State of Yue during China’s Spring and Autumn Period (What happened in summer?), Ruler Zhao Gou moved there for second time, “pretending to do something big by making a decision for amnesty,” his ancestors stayed. I guess he fled during Summer Period.   Chinese history can be confusing, especially in English-translated accounts. 

We checked into Motel168, with a nice lobby and simple rooms, and caught a bus to The Former Residence of Lu Xun. Past college students, attempting to give me a Chinese name, had often suggested I take Lu Xun’s name. Teacher? Writer? My farm background? They invariably explained, voices reverent, that he was the first to write of life of common people.

I remembered looking at XiAn’s cliff-cave doorways with worn paths down to work tilling gardens or selling street food, hearing teachers tell of Lu Xun’s couragous writing as we commuted to our university jobs. “Lu Xun wrote somewhere near here” directed my gaze out bus windows, imagining Lu Xun bent over a hoe while his head whirled into his next story and how to preserve it for his people, peasants.

The Lu Xun Former Residence monument was huge, with a bronze scholar and teacher outside the entry. I put an arm around each while Lisa took a picture.   Later I learned that Lu Xun “was perhaps the boy,” not the spectacled teacher I’d imagined on my right. Pedicab drivers, beggars, venders, and police harrangued us until we found where to get tickets (free, but conscientiously punched at four intervals by guards as our afternoon progressed). We started down several restored blocks of museums, courtyards, and ubiquitous tourist shops. Lu Xun’s grandfather, Zhou, was anything but a peasant. They had sedan-chairs, ornate beds, a leather couch in the parlor, and two golden osmanthus trees in shady courtyards. Lu Xun’s father, a scholar, had his title revoked when he sympathized with the 1898 Reformation Movement. He “got involved with a his grandfather’s bribery case and lost his title,” was another written explanation. I learned that Lu Xun’s wife, married in one chamber in 1906, couldn’t read or write (nor walk far on bound feet), but he provided her “with daily substances for living” while there were hints of a Beijing lady who shared his literary and other interests. We visited plaster-and-costume re-enactments of worshipping at private shrines (men only, in those days), a wedding where the bride’s red attire included a heavy veil, the wedding bed where the bride (still veiled) awaited the first look by her groom, the cave below the kitchen floor where yellow rice wine was put away at a girl child’s birth to be served at her wedding, and proceeded to Lu Xun’s boyhood school. This teacher, replicating the bronze in my picture, showed us the desk where young Lu Xun carved figures for “Get up earlier!” because he like to sleep in and often arrived late.
I had read of “Garden of Hundred Herbs,” among Lu Xun’s writings. The herbs turned out to be a healthy rows of vegetables that could still feed 10 Zhou households.”The Studio of Triple Tastes” with its couplet had a lingering hold on my imagination: “Extremely happy without making known to others is the filial piety; Soup made more delicious when enjoying it with books and poetry.” suggested Lu Xun believed in understatement and a multi-tasking.
Lena said we’d go to “The Statue” next, although we entered “The Studio of Triple Tastes” and learned that “to read classics is like having rice and cereal…history is like a banquiet…while collections of schools of thought is like a kind of seasoning. Delicious! Then I read that its name had changed from “The Studio of Spare Times.” I asked Lena, “Where is the sculpture?” “We’re in it,” she said, indicating the studio where writing and thinking were done. Sculpting ideas is a nice description for using any studio, we laughed, as she corrected her vocabulary glitch.

The sun was setting by the time we left the several-block compound, still abuzz with works, hawkers, and tourists.We had sampled stinky tofu, hadn’t found any yellow rice wine sold in small quantities, and decided to try a restaurant marked COFFEE. We had passable coffee that should have been sold in golden cups for its price and two plates of pistachios, the 20-yuan-person limit for their service, and talked until dark. It has been a while since I’d been part of three generations’ girl talk, a relaxing time.

Lisa left early for visa business in Hangzhou; I caught street breakfast and lots of stares before boarding a bus to Shen Yuan, a private Song Dynasty garden covering several blocks and exhumed in 1985. Lovely ponds, lakes, pavillions with folks doing Tai Ji (or is it Tai Chi here?) captivated me for a couple of hours. How I longed for my forgotten camera! Warm milk tea with black pearls, my favorite in cold weather, and a banana were midmorning snack before I found Bus 3 to KeYan area, 8 km outside the city.I rode with workers’ picks, buckets, and bundles and alighted with maids at Mirror Lake Resort, a hotel complex in progress. Lunch–bitter squash and garlic, rice garnished with an orchid, hot tea, pumpkin balls filled with bean curd, and a complimentary plate of fruit fashioned into a bird–found me alone in a private room (for 10, with a private bathroom) overlooking a rock sculptured courtyard. 48 yuan ($6.50) for all that splendor!

I  exited to murky green waterways off Mirror Lake, crossed the hump of an ornate cement bridge, and walked away the afternoon. Some natural sculptures, one topped with a tree, in huge pools probably dated to Yue’s day when this was one of “eight scenic attractions known far and wide.” The largest, with 21-meter Maitreya Buddha overlooking green waters, found me walking both ways so as not to miss a single angle’s view. However, my descriptive brochure confused me: It said “hewn 483-492,” in another it described “three generations of monks carving it over 30 years.” I ascended to three graceful temples, smelling incense. Murals and English paragraphs depicted Sakyamuni’s life at Stone City Temple’s apex.I descended to wander paths between wild gardens, sculptures, pavillions, and guys wanting to make a yuan or two. Below the roaring waterfall, you could have your picture taken on a docile horse or ride in a boat propelled by the boatman’s foot.

I walked a few more paths and bade farewell to KeYan Scenic Area to order afternoon tea, dessert, and another fruit plate in the resort lobby. A quiet piano played, and a soft-spoken waitress urged me to return. I told her, with enthusiasm, that I’d like that very much.

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August 16, 2009, The Almost Birthday

August 20, 2009 · 1 Comment

Back in June, in Kansas to wish Mom a happy 90th year, my brother took great delight in saying, “I can handle a mother who’s 90, but I don’t know what to do with a sister who’s 70!” He got a lot of laughs, and I started facing the fact that I’d be in Sanya for a significant birthday. My kids e-mailed a web list of experiences they’d like me to choose–balloon ride (over Guilin, actually several hours away by plane), a hike in the rain forest (I took Philippino Ami hiking there on her birthday for 1/9th the web price August 2), or scuba diving. I called Hilton’s rec guy, Wilbur, and set up August 8, figuring I’d have my next-day birthday to recover, if needed. 

Plans for a birthday beach bar-b-que were scrapped; most of my friends on staff had finished their contracts and moved on to hometowns/teaching at English training centers/bigger city kindergartens. The remainder teach every-other-week while Golden Sun combines classrooms as summer enrollment drops. Private school parents take families to cooler mainland homes during these hot tropical months. I decided I wouldn’t spend big Chinese yuan for a hotel-supplied seafood bar-b-que and overpriced drinks for folks I hardly knew chattering in Chinese. I had my invitation translated to Chinese for a “drop-in” refreshment in my apartment after their school-supplied dinner August 7. 

Friday morning, the children greeted me with spontaneously sung “Happy birthday to you…” and 17 people came that evening. In spite of “No Gifts!” on the invitation, I was given an assortment– earrings (Summer–English teacher I’d trained–and Xiao–I’d taken one sunrise bike ride to the beach with her); necklace (Shirley, who’ll assist English with my replacement); pearls (Chinese-Canadian business owners Bo and Annie); a can of spring water topped by a golf ball (Mr. Li, Caretaker); Chinese pencils (cook and his pre-school son); tiger eye bracelet (Kelly, principal and non-English speaker, who came after everyone else had gone); friendship bracelet (Alice, in training now); jade cell phone ornament (bus driver and wife, our Auntie who keeps classroom fed/clean/safe); pink shell bracelet (Darys, with whom I’ve spent hours doing visualization/verbalization to organize her thoughts in both Chinese and English); and a hand-cut papercut for long life and prosperity with birthday wish in Chinese (Mark, new teacher). I wore or happily displayed them, along with books and CDs from two US friends. Leo (not invited), 4-year-old who’s learning English as a tutoree, knocked–”Open the door, please!”–with a big box of Nestle’s coffee, threw it in and fled with his dad.

They tried tentatively, then ate with gusto: chicken salad on crackers; popcorn (from US WalMart; it’s all sweetened here); sweets (brought by Philippino sisters); watermelon; and a dark chocolate Terra Cotta Warrior made by Hilton chef. Chilean merlot (Hilton manager, June’s gift), peppermint tea (my concoction); orange drink (favorite of young Chinese women); green apple pop (has a bite to it) and strawberry wine (gift of expat and book lender, Robert, and his ex-student, Linda) led to a lot of sampling.I felt valued, and no one asked my age.
 Saturday, I watched clouds gather–there’s a typhoon in Philippines and Taiwan–and couldn’t get anyone to answer English at the Hilton. I took books to trade, my umbrella, and–sure enough–they’d cancelled all water activities. Wilbur took me to “The Kitchen,” decked out with bamboo ceiling and baozi (dumpling) basket chandeliers, where I read Freud’s little book on Forgetting, ate a small salad, drank a “fresh coffee,” and paid 106 yuan ($15US). Russians were having steak, big salads, and lots of drinks with little umbrellas while it poured rain into a frothy ocean beyond the palms. They must’ve not been living on teachers’ salaries.

Back home, I played “8″ games with Leo for a half hour, ate left over fried rice, and took a bus to tutor fourth grade Ricky, walking a long way under my umbrella in brisk rain. Ricky worked well toward his goal of winning the CCTV English speaking contest, then tantrumed at his mother during break. I strolled home along Sanya River to shed my distaste for the way young boys and mothers bark at one another, climbed to my flat, and couldn’t find my key! I called Helen, four hours away in Haikou.

“Virginia, my key is in my bag. I will send it tomorrow morning by way of the bus to Sanya.”  My options were to go to a hotel or beg Venes’ wooden couch. Venes’ new suite-mate, the only one home, tried to make me welcome with his limited English. His high-pitched giggling, insisting that I sleep on the lower bunk in his room, and downloading Nicholas Cage in Knowing diverted my attention from wondering what would happen Sunday when my kids called my empty apartment. 

Birthday morning, I bought breads from our market and my cell phone rang. Kent had set up a conference call with Janet; I even talked with Grant and Ethan. My first US-initiated call in China was a great birthday present–CA Fortner’s had a great HI trip (RJ’s birthday); all kids are healthy and thriving; Janet’s school and jewelry business is busy; both families now have dogs.I floated inside to have Ami’s coffee before we went to house church. Mike’s message was on forgiveness, and I pondered what I hadn’t forgotten/given myself that I left my key. Freud would say it had to do with something deeper than overload. Korean-born preacher, Jay Li invited me to lunch with the group (after I answered his “How old are you?” with “My father would say, “Old enough to know better.”) It was delicious–duck, fish, eggplant, and broccoli with our rice bowl. Venes joined us, then we caught a bus to YaLong Bay’s Bikini Party.

Cover-up and swimsuit were back in my locked apartment, and they ran out of give-away bikinis (to my relief and Venes’ consternation), so we watched the frantic girations to ear-splitting music, then walked the surf. No one ventured out in the high waves just offshore. We left early, enjoyed the 45-minute double decker bus ride to Sanya Bus Station, and spent another half hour trying to find the proper desk and person to recover my key. The girls presented me with chocolate milk tea with soy bean pearls, a birthday treat. 
 
Our beach party entitled us to a ticket to an evening Crown Beauty Center’s Superstar show, which we approached with high spirits. Thirty minutes later, we were squashed flat, clutching our valuables, in a mass of Chinese humanity. Several hundred seemed to hold tickets; folks wandered about in the box office; police stood just inside iron fences and occasionally let a small group through to stand in yet another blob–I dared not call it a line. I didn’t see anyone going into the show. We walked home, disappointed, until Mark opened Venes’ apartment door to wonderful aromas. He had cooked us dinner, deliciously seasoned vegetables, rice, onion with scrambled egg, and fresh plums. As I unlocked my door, I thought it wasn’t the birthday I envisioned, but it was warm and full of surprises. 

During the week, between lots of teaching while Chinese teachers held staff trainings, I thought about the diving advice I’d received: dive-certified expat Robert told me how he panicked on the ocean floor; Kent said he’d be more comfortable if I got certified; Janet said she thought training took several hours; Helen said she “would not let her life be dependent on one other person,” and I wondered what I had gotten myself into!  As if on cue, the rains stopped and sunshine ushered in August 15.

Wilbur met me, Alex determined that I was healthy; David interpreted what the instructor said as I learned hand signals, and I did what pro nephew Ben and niece Coleen told me, “Relax and stay calm.” The wet suit fit, so did the shoes. I had no trouble breathing deeply, clearing my goggles, ears, and air supply, and we sped across the bay to a rocky area. They put a weighted belt on me, I floated down toward a wonderland of coral colors, undulating sea plants, caverns, occasional fish, and sandy ocean floor. Currents of cold and warmer water surprised me as we descended. When signaled that it was OK, I touched spiny, corrugated, smooth, and rubbery formations. My thirty minute dive was over far too soon. I e-mailed the kids, “FANtastic!” Why had I waited this long to try it?

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July 31

August 20, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Yes, it’s great news today, July 31!  I bike early to breakfast with an expat with whom I trade English books, hoping he’ll lead me to somebody interested in filling my spot as Golden Sun’s next “native English speaker,” along with Venes’ Philippino sister, Amy. An urgent call comes from Chinese teacher, Cherry, and I pedal hurriedly to school. You’d laugh, seeing me try to engage the entire school in a “copy me” bear hunt while waiting on reporters to arrive with their cameras today for “an activity” (All I know).The 2-5 year olds do pretty well in their huge circle of chairs, so we try an action song; then Venes leads one.
 
We line up, follow teachers into the courtyard of my next-door apartments and ”pick up rubbish” (with only two small plastic bags to put it in)–a much-needed activity for this entire year, in my estimation. Problem is, the rubbish had all been cleaned up by workers over the past few days; the kids mostly pick up decaying leaves. Teachers wield new brooms for sweeping grass clean. Go figure!  This will go on TV as an example of devotion to the motherland on Sanya channels, no doubt.  It makes me wonder at the veracity of CCTV9’s pictures of rockslide damage to a bridge I’d crossed near Chengdu in 2006 and Shanghai’s flood waters receding today. I’ll live two hours’ trainride from Shanghai by September.

photolilaAt noon online, I get Lila’s good news that she has a clean bill of health and predictions of a normal future. I’m an unexpressibly grateful grandmother, thankful also for cool days during three-day rainy sprinkles in Sanya. I imagine she’s back to her big grin as she zooms down the slide she navigated at 12 months. Put her in a helmet and watch her go…

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Waiting Can Be Fun

September 2, 2008 · 1 Comment

     Today’s the second day of school on SanYa. No sign of documents yet, but that gave me time to enjoy the Sanders County Fair–Rodeo and Demolition Derby (a wild “first” for me!) with Justin Kuykendall’s family, a century-old costume on our Plains Women’s Club float ($100 first place), volunteering in the fry bread/hamburger/bingo booths, and plenty of appetite for Fair food. 

     August 23rd weekend was spent on Mare Island where Kent and RJ had a lawn party. My main preparation job was Lila-watching (she’s chortling now), but Owen and I also had some play time (he has quite an imagination). Weather was perfect, over a hundred friends/clients/family enjoyed BBQ, the bluegrass band honored all our requests, and the Green Truck had a Road 31 place of honor with guests claiming drinks from the tailgate. I drove to Yosemite for a couple of days’ hiking and gaping at spectacular mountains and redwoods. Brother Ron was in Spokane Airport with fresh Washington peaches. We stopped on Lake Couer D’Alene for Beverly’s salad bar. As I write this, mountain sheep clatter along the base of the cliff behind my little house. I can wait like this as long as China takes!

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